They call it the “Quarter-life Crisis.”

It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn’t know and may not like.

You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. Read the rest of this entry »

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When a person is not getting their emotional needs met in a relationship, they seek it from someone who will give it to them. All people want to be loved, acknowledged, validated and needed. Humans want to be desired. If those needs aren’t getting met through their partner, they go online and find someone who meets their needs and begin cyber cheating. There are plenty of strangers online who will fulfill those needs, especially if deceit is involved. Many people lie to the online strangers in order to get the attention they think they deserve.

The person may tell the stranger how mean and distant their partner is so the stranger feels pity for them. Many married people tell online strangers they are “separated” or “divorcing” when this is far from the truth. Read the rest of this entry »

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I loved spicy foods…..

I learned how to eat spicy when i worked in Penang Malaysia before.

That time we got no choice but to eat what they serve us..i still remember on that very first day we arrived in Penang.. they served us NASI LEMAK its a sticky rice and with toppings of dried fish (dilis) and boild egg, wrapped with banana leaves. All of us.. really don’t know how to eat spicy foods so we were all thinking what to eat and the only way for us to ease the hunger is to eat that food they served..

So even i don’t really eat spicy i tried to eat it… the taste is good… but there is a taste of hot inside of my mouth so i drink water. Read the rest of this entry »

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Are you a good adviser? or are you the one who always seeks for an advice?
Well all of us always can give or received an advice from our friends, parents, or lovers….

Some really seek an advice from a professional adviser….

But my question is? Read the rest of this entry »

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Are you away from you’re wife/husband/ girlfriend/ boyfriend?

Being away from them is not that easy especially if there’s a lot of temptation around… even in his place or where u at right now…as for me i had a lot of friends, relatives who really didn’t survive or sustain in long distance relationship. I know its really hard to have a broken family… and loose u’re loved one, especially if u had kids… who really suffers in this situation…. So heres some tips for all of us in order to sustain…..u’re faithfulness with u’re loved one…
There are lots of things that one must do and lots that one must not do in order to rescue and sustain a long-distance relationship. Below is some advice that may look simple but when it comes to the actual execution, it may take more effort than you think. Read the rest of this entry »

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Each one of us needs a partner in life. Someone to share laughter with, someone to bond with, someone to hug, someone to love, and someone we actually see ourselves everyday. Other people feel so lucky to find their perfect match no farther than just a ride away. But what if the perfect person that you’ve been looking for lives miles away from you?

The adventure in Internet chat rooms, online dating, and text messaging has triggered the popularity of long distance relationships. You might think it’s an impossible task and would never commit to a person who is very far away from you. Read the rest of this entry »

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After a long long time in my life i learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t mean security, And i begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises, And i began to accept my defeats with my head up and my eyes wide open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child, And i learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, And i learn to build all my roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans. After a while i learn that even sunshine burns if you get near too much. So i plant my own garden and decorate my own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring me flowers. And i learn that you really can endure…that im really strong, and i am really do have worth. And i learn and you learn too…that i cant be with you anymore with every good-byes in my life i learn… and start a new life… with a smile in my face and never look back… after all its your lost…. not MINE!!

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MISTAKES……we all commit them……

There are times when we were lucky, but we still commit mistakes in our lives.. If only an ERASER will do the trick, and erase all the mistakes in our lives….. and we can rub it across every page of our lives, wipe away the DUST, and all that left of our careless MESS is a hardly noticeable smudge…

But in real world most mistakes can’t be erased…No matter how hard we try…

If only we were like a PENCIL we can erase the mistakes we made, but

We have to accept the reality our life does not come with ERASERS.

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Maybe be you’re thinking why… i had this title???

Well you know why?…. this article is just a follow up from my previous article titled “LEFT or RIGHT or WRONG“……. as i was telling you guys… that VIAND.. (ulam) is just like a different girls/gals in your life…. di ba?

So i wrote this article about the KANIN (cooked rice) in your life….. well KANIN (ure real or legal WIFE/HUSBAND)…… Read the rest of this entry »

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Sometimes people came into our life and you know right away that they were meant to be there to serve some sort of PURPOSE, teach you a lesson or HELP you to figure out who you are or who you want to become someday….you never know who these people are (possibly your friend, neighbor, co-worker, lover, chat mate or even a complete stranger).

But when you look at their eyes you can know from that very moment that they will AFFECT your life in some profound way…. and sometimes things happen to you that may seem HORRIBLE, PAINFUL and UNFAIR at first, but in reflection you can find that without overcoming those Read the rest of this entry »

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